Stacey, your article has some great truths about sex and aging. Thank you. A few of my favorite highlights, paraphrased:

It ain’t always about the orgasm.
Talking about what you want and desire is the best way to get it.
My older penis has ebbs and flows, but mostly I’m excited by the prospect of whatever will happen.

The actual act of sex is more important to me than orgasm. I remember when I was younger, I could have an orgasm a couple times a day. Now, not so much. But as I was younger I also never felt like I got enough sex from sex. When I was spent my experience and closeness was over. NOW, it’s very different. I relish the idea of having sex regardless of either of us achieving climax. And this is the point: making love for 45-minutes without an orgasm is still making lover for 45-minutes. AND, we’re going to wake up in the morning and still both be hungry for more. That’s the beauty of learning that the BIG O is not always the goal. Closeness. Intimacy. Touching. Those are my goals and the longer we go, the more fulfilled I am.

Namaste!