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How I Found Happiness Along the Way

John McElhenney
3 min readMar 18, 2022

Happiness is all about perspective and outlook for the future.

A UCLA study revealed that two distinct groups of people who experienced life-changing events, one bad (the death of a loved one) and one good (winning a huge sum of money in the lottery), returned to their relative measure of happiness within one year of the event.

TRUTH ABOUT HAPPINESS: IT’S BUILT-IN!

The grumpy folks who won the lottery and were set for life were still grumpy. And the happy folks, even after suffering a great loss were relatively happy after one year.

Hard to believe perhaps, but it makes sense. And during my 40-something years on the planet, I have come across some models of centering, contemplation, recovery and joy that I feel it would be helpful to share. I am not planning a program or any type of revelation, merely an inner dialogue and revelation about some of my greatest comforts and simplest observations and lessons.

Reading and Writing

Books have always formed a huge part of my life. TV never held the sway that the library on a Saturday afternoon did. New books! And writing has come and gone throughout my education and career as an invaluable skill. Sometimes it’s poetry sometimes…

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John McElhenney
John McElhenney

Written by John McElhenney

John McElhenney is an author, life coach, and musician who lives in Austin, Texas. He’s best known for his single dad blog, The Whole Parent. (wholeparent.org)

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