Bonnie, thanks for your article. I enjoyed your description of the good guy. I’m writing a response, but I wanted to weigh-in with one point here. “I knew it was unlikely I was going to feel the spark…” Um, my question is this. Why go for that? If you’re looking for a 100% rockstar connection, why would you tell yourself “but you never, ever know…”? I think you did know. And for some reason, I think you went on the date anyway. Boredom? Lack of other interesting candidates? I don’t know, I can’t read your mind, only your words. Let’s compare notes sometime. I’m in the ATX as well. Happily relating in a 7-month-old happy beginning. Cheers!